New podcast is up with Felecia Killings! We talk about the fact that the black community is not a monolith, and that a lot of people in that community are politically homeless at the moment. We talk fellowship, knowing history and spiritual understanding. #WalkInsWelcome
My loves this trip has been more work than play or vacation but definitely learning a lot. Can’t wait to be back in the groove though. I forgot how much I missed clouds.
I drove 1500 miles and other than a paid billboard I didn't see a single Biden sign for almost a week.
I had the brilliant Bret Weinstein on #WalkInsWelcome to help me understand #Unity2020 He outlines his innovative and bold plan to galvanize disaffected voters, force both parties to meet in the middle and we land on an exciting slogan: FUCK THE DUOPOLY.
I've been reading through hundreds of emails from people who have written me since my column "Why I Won't Vote" came out and of the myriad of feelings I experience reading them--the primary one is humility. I'm honored people feel safe sharing their political journeys with me. I'm honored people trust me with their story in such polarized times. And I'm honored they take the time to tell me their honest truth.
Many of you here in this community do the same thing on a daily basis. It's your posts and emails and comments that keep me going on days when I wonder why I opened my big mouth and stumbled into this space.
Your presence is a gift and when I can step away from the noise, even for a day, the only feeling that remains in a profound sense of gratitude for you all and the space we've created here--where people can be safe to express themselves--something that judging from my emails--is rare in an increasingly hostile world.
Love you all.
This week on #DumpsterFire "Make Kink Shaming Great Again": Which tears are the sweetest, Lib tears or MAGA tears? Did Melania shank Ivanka after Ivanka snubbed her on the RNC stage? The Adult Baby Diaper Lover Community is a thing that exists and I can't.
The (Mostly) Unedited version of #DumpsterFire is up for subscribers and I take no responsibility for anything I said it was 100 degrees and I was delirious.
So many thoughts rattling around in my brain and not enough time to process them on the page, which is where they deserve to be processed. As the election approaches and the insanity ramps up I really want to make sure we're taking care of ourselves and each other in this community. What can I do to support you? What can we do to support each other?
Two weeks ago we had trans man Buck Angel as a guest. Last week we had Ben Shapiro. This week we have lesbian firebrand and podcaster, Katie Herzog. #WalkInsWelcome living up to its premise.
I was on the Reason podcast and it was hoot.
I was on the Spectator podcast and we had fun.
Hello my loves -- I can't do #DropInsWelcome today because my bookkeeper could only meet during that time and I need to see her. We will have one next Friday instead before I go on a much needed vacation before the shit show that is going to be America 2020.
Love you all so much!!!
Here's my latest for Spectator. It stirs up a lot of feelings and opinions in people I only ask that you disagree with one another respectfully if you get into it here.
I had B. Shap in the house for #WalkInsWelcome and it went too fast.
A lot of "MAGA!!!!" in the comments on YouTube this week and I cannot tell you how happy it makes me to trigger this particular group of snowflakes.
It's here! The Buck Angel podcast and it's so much fun. I love him.
Never thought I’d have to explain to a UPS worker why I’m crying—but there’s a first time for everything.
I’m humbled and baffled at your generosity. Thank you so much. Truly. I’m moved and speechless.
I honestly don't miss Twitter at all; being able to hang out here is really all the engagement and news tidbits I need. It's the perfect oasis.
Okay Pham, it's here. The updated Amazon wish list. Many people often ask me how they can help with just one-off donations--but honestly what I need more than money is equipment to start setting up my in-house studio and make it easier to shoot more quick video content (not just #DumpsterFire .
I'm incredibly grateful for the fact that any of you are even subscribers or consumers of my content and I feel a bit awkward even putting this here. But numerous people have asked me so here you go!
"TikTok sucks now that the old people* are on it." - my 11-year-old nephew
Phetasy Zoom #DropInsWelcome today at 3pm Pacific Time for subscribers only! If you aren’t a subscriber, this is yet another reason to join the tribeless tribe.
Had the pleasure of speaking with @conservmillen to talk about God, self-love and our faith and beliefs. I love this #WalkInsWelcome Allie and I might come from very different places, but the conversation is always loving, compassionate and respectful. I love her so much.
Welcome to all the new members of the #PhetaPham ! We are happy to have you here in the gated retirement community that is Phetasy. (Retirement from social media.) The Golden Rule is DON'T BE A DICK. Any other questions will hopefully be answered here: https://phetasy.com/about
Workouts for the ladies are at 1pm PST.
We will be having a #DropInsWelcome chat this Friday at 3:00 pm PDT so bring your cocktails and mocktails and let's get ready to laugh. I'll post the zoom link later in the week.
The edited version is up!
Is Trump taking advice from a witch doctor? Has China figured out how to grow super soldiers from seeds? Are you prepared for America to burn? Is my Alex Jones impression a little too good? #DumpsterFire 30 is up! "Burned by the Holy Spirit"
The (Mostly) Unedited version of #DumpsterFire this week is up. We love this version even more than the edited because to keep the edited tight so much has to get cut. Every other week really gives me a chance to get ramped up.
OMG I did lose 2 subscribers after I posted that picture. Hahahahahahahaha I am dead.
Really fricking love these workouts, Pheta ladies. Thank you for showing up. You all motivate me! The workout on Friday will be at 2pm just so you know.
What is really important to you? To me it’s knowledge and art and health. So I’m building my life around less time on social media and more time reading, writing, cooking, walking and starting my piano lessons again.
I have 8 audible credits and I want great historical reads particularly about WWI and the Civil War — books that are normally 30 bucks. Any recommendations?
#SarahConnor schedule this week for the ladies of Phetasy. M-F at 1pm PST. We usually go for an hour. Come for as long as you can. Something is better than nothing.
I'm so obsessed with The Last Dance. I could watch it over and over. Jordan changed the world. It's nuts.
Don't forget, Pham -- in a half hour for subscribers only we are meeting on Zoom to discuss how our month went, what's new and our thoughts on NO POLITICS AUGUST.
How open are we to the idea of doing NO POLITICS here in Phetasy for the month of August? I’m specifically going off Twitter to avoid it and would love if this place could be kinda devoid of it for a minute but would love to take a consensus from the tribe.
Someone called Phetasy.com "the pleasantville of social media" and I've never been so honored.